Marriage Isn’t the Magic Fix—But You Can Have the Life You Desire NOW
You’re done feeling like life is on hold. You love God, you desire marriage, and yet… it feels like you’re stuck, waiting for something to change. What if you didn’t have to wait to feel whole?
‘Becoming Her’ is a transformational journey to help you stop waiting and start living.
Why Everything You’ve Heard About Christian Dating Isn’t Working
You’ve been told that once you’re healed enough, once you do enough work, once you become the Proverbs 31 woman—then you’ll be ready for marriage.
And yet, you’re watching women who haven’t done all the “right” things get married, while you’re still sitting here wondering, “What else do I need to fix?”
The Real Cost of Waiting Another Year
Every day you wait, you risk:
Wasting time in relationships that drain you instead of aligning with you.
Feeling stuck in the same cycle of waiting, hoping, and wondering.
Holding off on your dreams, assuming they start after marriage.
But most of all, waiting another year means spending another year not fully living the life God has for you.
How long are you willing to put your life on hold?
Here’s the truth: There’s no magic formula. And the way Christian culture talks about dating? It’s not the full story
You’ve heard just heal and wait
But what about practical steps?
You’ve heard single or married
But where’s the guidance for dating?
You’ve heard when God is ready, He will bring your husband
But what about your role in the process?
‘Becoming Her’ is the course that tells you the truth about dating, relationships, and marriage preparation in a way that’s real, honest, and actually works
I don’t teach this from theory.
I don’t teach this from an unattainable “just pray and wait” mindset.
I teach this because I lived it.
It wasn’t perfect. I stumbled, I learned, I unlearned, I wrestled with control, I questioned myself, I made mistakes—and still, God’s plan unfolded.
Marriage didn’t come because I mastered healing.
Marriage came because I learned how to date differently and live fully in my current season.
That’s what I want to teach you.
Meet your coach
I’m Hayden DeHart
I know what it’s like to desire marriage, to feel like you’re doing all the right things but still waiting for things to change. I walked this journey myself—through the highs and lows, the lessons and the unlearning—and I realized something powerful: life doesn’t start when you get married. It starts now.
As a life coach for Christian women, I guide women to take intentional steps toward building the life they’ve been praying for. Because the life you desire doesn’t start at the altar—it starts the moment you decide to live fully, right where you are.
I created Becoming Her because I know how frustrating it is to hear the same Christian dating advice over and over—advice that doesn’t actually help you move forward. This course is different. It’s not about waiting—it’s about becoming the woman God created you to be now, so when marriage comes, you walk into it with clarity, peace, and confidence.
I can’t wait to guide you through this journey! Are you ready?
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What’s Inside?
At its core, Becoming Her is about learning how to walk in the rhythm God has set for your life—instead of striving, waiting, or feeling behind. It’s about recognizing that God’s timing isn’t random, and when you align with His rhythm, everything else falls into place.
The Becoming Her Framework
A structured, faith-based process to shift your mindset, date with wisdom, and prepare for marriage with confidence—all while walking in God’s divine rhythm for your life.
Audio Teachings & Deep-Dive Lessons
Designed for busy women, listen on the go as I walk you through how to stop striving and start start flowing in alignment with God’s timing.
The Becoming Her Journal
Reflection prompts and guided exercises to help you process, unlearn, and step fully into your identity.
Intentional Action Challenges
Practical steps and activities to shift your dating approach, deepen your faith, and start living with purpose.
Monthly Live Prayer & Coaching Call
Get support, clarity, and guidance directly from me in a space designed for breakthrough.
Lifetime Access
This isn’t just a course—it’s a resource you can return to again and again, at any stage of your journey.
What You’ll Walk Away With
A Deep, Unshakable Relationship with God
Walk in your own God-given rhythm, knowing who you are and what He desires for you beyond marriage.
A Life You Love Right Now
Build deep friendships, pursue passions, and embrace the fullness of this season.
A Whole New Approach to Dating
Say goodbye to confusion and settling. Learn to date with confidence, wisdom, and peace, knowing exactly what to look for in a partner.
A Fresh Mindset About Marriage
No more pressure, no more striving—just a confident, peaceful assurance that marriage will come in God’s perfect timing.
12 RHYTHMS OF
Becoming Her
Part I; Dating God
Before you can build strong relationships—with yourself or others—you need a foundation in Him. This first phase will help you deepen your faith, build trust in God’s timing, and surrender your heart, dreams, and identity fully to Him.
Week 1: The Surrender Rhythm – Learning to trust God with your emotions, desires, and disappointments.
Week 2: The Dream Alignment Rhythm – Surrendering your dreams to God and embracing His perfect timing.
Week 3: The Rooted Rhythm – Reclaiming your identity in Christ and overcoming comparison.
Week 4: The Sacred Pause Rhythm – Creating meaningful time with God through scripture and reflection.
Part II; Dating Yourself
Loving yourself isn’t self-indulgent—it’s essential. This phase is all about embracing your God-given worth, learning how to set healthy boundaries, and finding joy in every season.
Week 5: The Daily Joy Rhythm – Learning to celebrate yourself and live in joy.
Week 6: The Graceful “No” Rhythm – Setting boundaries that protect your peace and honor your values.
Week 7: The Renewal Rhythm – Cultivating gratitude and embracing the joy in every season.
Week 8: The Authentic Action Rhythm – Living intentionally and in alignment with God’s purpose.
Part III; Dating Others
Healthy relationships don’t just happen. They’re built—with intention, grace, and faith. This phase will teach you how to cultivate Christ-centered connections in friendships, family, and even romantic relationships.
Week 9: The Intentional Connection Rhythm – Building meaningful friendships rooted in faith.
Week 10: The Grace in Action Rhythm – Strengthening and healing family relationships.
Week 11: The Overflow Rhythm – Practicing acts of love and kindness toward strangers.
Week 12: The Heart Alignment Rhythm – Preparing your heart for a Christ-centered romantic relationship.
The Investment: What It Would Cost Elsewhere vs. Here
If you were to work with me 1-on-1 for 12 months, it would look like this:
48 private coaching sessions at $149 per session = $7,152
A high-value dating and life transformation course (industry standard: $497-$997)
Bonus: Monthly Live Prayer + Coaching Call → An exclusive touchpoint for personalized guidance
Total cost if you pieced this together? Over $7,500.
But Becoming Her gives you all this for a fraction of that investment.
This course delivers the same transformation without the high-ticket coaching cost—giving you the clarity, wisdom, and guidance you need to move forward without spending thousands on private coaching.
Because this isn’t just a course—it’s your roadmap to a transformed season.
